5 Signs of a Strong, Healthy Relationship

- Do You Have Them?
1. The more time you spend together, the more you like each other.
This is something you "feel", not think. There is nothing better than really liking another person. The attraction to another is really about you; how much you like who you are when you are with this person.
2. When angry or upset, never go for the jugular.
Knowing another person's secrets and vulnerabilities is an honor and must never be used against them. There is nothing more hurtful than taking this privileged information and using it as a weapon. Unless you honor the depth of this communication, you can never have a strong relationship.
3. You enjoy sex with your partner.
Sex is not about having an itch and scratching it - it is about play, and the joy that comes from letting down your walls. Being naked is a true metaphor for great sex; the openness that comes from taking off our costume and feeling comfortable in our nakedness.
4. You support one another's interests, even if they're different than your own.
You have to really feel confident and loving to do this. Do you need your partner to like the same things you like? Supporting another's interests comes from an open heart that understands the need to resonate to what is true for you, and not someone else.
5. You don't make the other person guess - You say what you need.
Saying what you need is devoid of manipulation and the only way to have an authentic relationship. Sometimes it is not easy to speak up, but in the long run, it is always easier to bear the anxiety of shaking up the status quo than living with the resentment and anger that comes with not getting what you want and need.

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Tingin nyo tama ba to???


why do we love ba?
so we can have somebody to talk to?
someone who can be there pag gusto natin gumala?
a person na pwedeng manlibre satin?
taong magbibitbit ng gamit mo?
ALALAY for short!
eh pano kung di ka nya mahal?
would you still love him/her?
would you still continue to care for that person?
bakit naman hinde?
you didnt love that person para magkaroon ka ng alalay, magkaroon ka ng instant meal dahil libre, taong gagawa ng assignments mo or projects, or taong mahihila mo if you want to go out... if thats what you think about love well sorry
ang BABAW mo!

loving a person doesn't need to have a criteria na dapat maganda o guwapo,
dapat mabait or understanding,
kasi once you fall inlove you take the risk of accepting dat person
kahit maingay sya matulog, yung hilik ng hilik
kahit matakaw sya o sobrang fat na hindi kayo kasya pag puno ang jeep!
kahit sobrang moody nya na kulang na lang ay sapakin mo sa inis!
yung sobrang selosa/seloso na pati barkada pinagseselosan..
badtrip diba?
and yung napaka-arte OA kung baga!
o kahit ano pang things that would turn you off...
hirap tlaga magmahal trying to be PERFECT kase
gusto mong magtagal pero hindi yun ang sagot sa lahat...

ACCEPTING the real person fully
kase if you said na mahal mo sya you dont need
to find answers kung bakit mo sya mahal...
kase lahat ng tao nagbabago but if you accept
that person magbago man sya in the middle of your
relationship hindi ka masasaktan kase you know that darating
din yun.. tsaka tanggap mo sya ng buo...
mahirap gawin pero masarap subukan dahil
wala ng sasaya pa if you let one person feel na
MAHAL NA MAHAL mo sya without asking 4 anything in
return...
then you can say wow un pla ang LOVE!
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections....

ETO PA

Nakakatawa talaga ang love. Isa siyang napakalaking oxymoron. (means "cruel kindness") Lahat ng pwede mong masabi sa kanya, baliktarin mo at totoo pa rin.
Ang labo diba? Pero ang linaw.
Masaya magmahal. Malungkot magmahal. Di mo
naiintindihan pero naiintindihan mo. Walang rason. Maraming rason.
Di mo na kaya, pero kaya mo pa rin. Masakit magmahal. Pero okey lang.
Sus, ano ba talaga?!
May kaibigan ako, sabi niya dati "Love is only for stupid people."
Nakakatawa kasi laude ang standing niya, pero dumating ang panahon, na-in-love din ang hunghang. At ayun, tanga na siya ngayon.
Lahat kasi ng nahahawakan ng love nagiging oxymoron din. O kaya paminsan, nagiging moron lang.
Hindi lang kasi basta baliktaran ang pag-ibig.
Lahat ng bagay nababaligtad din niya. Lahat ng malalakas na tao,
humihina. Ang mayayabang, nagpapakumbaba. Ang mga walang
pakialam, nagiging Mother Teresa. Ang mga henyo, nauubusan ng sagot. Ang malulungkot, sumasaya.
Nakakatawa talaga. Lalo na kapag dumadating siya sa mga taong ayaw na talaga magmahal.
Napansin ko nga eh. Parang kung gusto mo lang ma-in-love ulit, sabihin mo lang ang magic words na
"Ayoko na ma-inlove!" biglang WACHA! Ayan na
siya.Nang-aasar. Magpapaasar ka naman.

Di ba nakakatawa rin na pagdating sa problema ng ibang tao, ang galing galing mo? Pero 'pag problema mo na yung pinag-uusapan parang nawawalan ng saysay lahat ng ipinayo mo dun sa namomroblemang tao?
Naiisip mong wala namang mali dun sa mga sinabi mo. Pero bakit parang wala ring tama?
Bali-baliktad din ang nasasabi ng mga taong tinamaan ng madugong pana ng pag-ibig. "Ngayon ko lang nalaman ganito pala.
Sabi ko na eh!" "Ang sarap mabuhay. Pwede na 'ko mamatay. Now na!"
At hindi lang 'yon. Ang sarap din pagtawanan ng mga taong alam naman nilang masasaktan lang sila eh magpapatihulog pa rin sa bangin ng pag-ibig. Tapos 'pag luray-luray na yung puso nila, siyempre hindi sila yung may kasalanan.
Siya! "Bakit niya 'ko sinaktan?" May kasama pang pagsuntok sa pader yon, at pagbabagsak ng pinto.
Hayop talaga.
Mauubos ang buong magdamag ko kakasabi ng mga bagay na nakakatawa 'pag pag-ibig na ang pinag-usapan. Ang daming beses ko na kasi siya nakasalubong kaya masasabi ko nang eksperto na 'ko.
Pero wala pa rin akong alam.
Pero ang pinakanakakatawa sa lahat ay ang katotohanang kapag gusto magpatawa ng pag-ibig, ipusta na mo na lahat ng ari-arian mo dahil siguradong ikaw ang punchline.
Nakakatawa no?
Nakakaiyak.
DIBA TAMA AKO !!!!

Jen Salvaje
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